The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t
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Episode 5
History Is Not a Hall Pass
Knowing someone longer does not give them more permission to mishandle you. In Episode 5 of The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t, LaDàna Young gets honest about the family titles, old friendships, and shared history that can make us excuse behavior we would never accept from someone we met yesterday. She explores the difference between private care and public narrative management, why being needed can feel like being valued, and the painful truth that doing extraordinary things for people does not buy lifelong loyalty. She also owns her part in the pattern: she kept renewing the passes. This conversation makes room for forgiveness, accountability, distance, and changed behavior. Every disagreement does not require a cutoff. But memories and titles cannot do the work of a healthy relationship, and forgiveness does not automatically restore trust or access. LaDàna's comeback means returning to herself: her voice, her judgment, her dreams, and her peace. YOUR COMEBACK ASSIGNMENT Think about one relationship where history has been doing more work than the relationship itself. Write honest answers to these questions: 1. What behavior am I excusing because of who this person is or how long I have known them? 2. If I met this person today, would I choose this relationship in its current form? 3. What would changed behavior actually look like, and have I seen it consistently? Then name the title you have been using to excuse the behavior, the behavior you would not accept from a stranger, and the boundary you need now. Share this episode with someone who might need the same conversation, and follow The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t with LaDàna Young. Inspiration acknowledged in the episode: @kingmoenc. Show website: https://igotthecomeback.com CHAPTERS 00:00 Branded intro 00:12 History is not a hall pass 01:01 Welcome and the inspiration behind this episode 02:27 The people with titles 04:20 Care shows up privately 06:07 Being needed is not the same as being valued 08:00 I kept renewing the pass 09:43 The peace I found in distance 11:05 Forgiveness does not require restoration 12:13 What my comeback actually means 13:33 The Comeback Assignment 14:59 Honor the history and choose what comes next 16:14 Branded outro
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Episode 4
High-Functioning Is Not the Same as Okay
You can be exhausted and still answer the email. You can be overwhelmed and still show up for everybody else. You can be carrying more than you probably should and still look completely fine from the outside. That’s the trap. In Episode 4 of The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t, I’m talking about what it means to be “high-functioning” when functioning well becomes the very thing that keeps people, including you, from realizing how tired you actually are. This isn’t an episode where I pretend I’ve figured out the perfect balance. I haven’t. It’s a conversation about being capable, being dependable, being the person who handles things, and realizing that sometimes those qualities can make it incredibly easy to hide in plain sight. At some point, we have to ask ourselves a harder question: Am I actually okay, or am I just really good at functioning when I’m not? 🎧 Listen to Episode 4: High-Functioning Is Not the Same as Okay Your Comeback Assignment: Think about one thing you keep doing simply because you can do it. Then ask yourself: Do I still want to carry this, or have I just gotten really good at carrying it? If this episode feels familiar, come find me after you listen and tell me what landed. The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t is hosted by LaDàna Young.
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Episode 3
Everybody Wants You to Win Until You Set the Price
Everybody wants you to win until you set the price. In Episode 3 of The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t, LaDàna Young starts with her real experience at DaBaby’s No Knife restaurant in Charlotte and turns it into a bigger conversation about pricing, ownership, criticism, support and what it actually costs to build something. The wait was long. There were launch-day issues. Some things could have been communicated better. And the food was bomb. All of those things can be true at the same time. This episode is not an argument for blind support. Customers get to critique service, value and experience. But there is a difference between saying, “That’s too expensive for me,” and deciding a business owner should not be allowed to charge what they believe their product, labor, overhead and risk are worth. LaDàna also gets into the pressure we put on local and minority-owned businesses, the expectations celebrity businesses carry, and why supporting somebody who is building does not require turning off your critical thinking. Your comeback assignment: If you own a business, finish these two sentences: The price I have been afraid to charge is… The reason I keep second-guessing it is… Then make one honest pricing adjustment within the next seven days. If you are the customer, the next time you catch yourself saying, “They shouldn’t charge that,” try: “That’s not for me.” After you listen, comment one word under the episode post: BUILDING. The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t is hosted by LaDàna Young.
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Episode 2
I Owe Myself An Apology
I owe myself an apology, not because I failed, but because I got so good at surviving that I started calling it living. In Episode 2 of The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t, LaDàna Young turns the microphone inward for an honest reckoning with the woman who learned to handle everything. She explores what happens when exhaustion gets mistaken for ambition, being needed becomes proof of worth, and survival mode becomes a permanent address. This is not about blaming the version of you who survived. It is about honoring her, thanking her and finally relieving her of duty. Because an apology without changed behavior is just a speech, and living requires more than making it through another day. Your comeback assignment: finish these two sentences: I owe myself an apology for… I will begin making it right by… Then take one honest action within the next 24 hours. After you listen, leave one word under the episode post: LIVING. The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t is hosted by LaDàna Young.
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Episode 1
Public Service Announcement
What are you reclaiming for yourself right now: your time, your voice, your peace or your dreams? Listen and vote below before the poll closes. Episode 1 is a reintroduction. In this premiere episode of The Comeback: Real Life Sh!t, LaDàna Young steps to the mic with a clear message: this is a public service announcement. This episode is not about shrinking, second-guessing, or waiting for permission. It is about reclaiming your voice, owning your story, and recognizing when it is finally your time. LaDàna shares the energy behind her comeback, what this new chapter represents, and why this podcast exists for people navigating real life, real pressure, real growth, and real reinvention. If you have ever had to rebuild your confidence, return to yourself, or remind the world who you are, this episode is for you. Listen, subscribe, and share if this speaks to you.
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